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How Racially Harmonious is Mamaroneck?

Although Hispanic residents make up 24 percent of the Village of Mamaroneck population according to the 2010 Census, are their needs being met in the community?

 

“You’re only good for crossing the border.”

“Where’d you get your papers?”

The taunts begin at the elementary school level and provide an early introduction for some members of the Latino community to the racial inequities that exist in this suburban community, said Guisela Marroquin, director of the

“It gets worse at Hommocks,” she said.

This issue is not a new one.  In 2009, the parent of a student at the (MAS) recalled how she was teased by students, who referred to MAS as “the ghetto school with all the poor, dirty Mexicans.”  This set off a firestorm of comments on local blog LyndaLarch10538 and online news site the Larchmont Gazette, with opinions sharply divided as to whether or not the comment was indicative of intolerant attitudes in the community or not to be taken seriously.

But little has changed since the Minority Achievement Task Force revealed a significant gap between minority and other students a decade ago, said Luis Quiros, a community activist, author of and president of Padres Unidos High School, a group to engage Latino parents at (MHS). There is also a Padres Unidos group at .  A copy of the Task Force’s original agenda can be viewed by clicking to the right of this article.

“Abuses based on racial slurs, we have heard about three cases during the last two to three months and all the kids have noted that the terminology and slurs are heard around the school and during lunch consistently. The abuse is verbal and also through Facebook,” said Quiros.

Having spent her childhood in Mamaroneck, Theresa Cozart—an African-American resident who recently returned to the area from Mount Vernon—said her son, a Hommocks student, has had a difficult transition. She said he’s been bullied since 2010.  

“He said he hated school and didn’t want to be there—he said he wanted to kill himself,” she said.

Although she’s aware of only a few of the harsh sentiments aimed at him such as, “You’re poor,” or “You don’t have anything,” she suspects that what he doesn’t share with her is much worse.

Cozart said that despite the school’s efforts to speak directly to the person responsible for bullying him, the offender was back at it again before long.

“The only reason I brought my kids back here was so they could go to school here—they are miserable,” she said.

Although details on the case are scarce, a Hommocks student named Gustavo Segura is circulating a petition on change.org, protesting his suspension from school for his involvement in a fight that began with racially charged language and ended with his suffering two fractured fingers. According to a letter that went out to parents on June 7, several sixth grade boys arranged a fight over Facebook, to take place at on May 30.  

"The [fight was a] result of a dispute originating in elementary school and fueled by racial epithets," said the letter written by Hommocks Principal Seth Weitzman.

Even though the fight did not take place on school grounds, the district and guidance counselors contacted parents of all involved children and arranged a week-long classroom training on diversity and conflict resolution, among other things.

A copy of the letter is viewable by clicking to the right of this article.  

Although the school is prohibited from speaking in greater detail about bullying incidents in order to preserve student's privacy, District Spokesperson Debbie Manetta said the following:

"Whether behavior such as this takes place on school grounds or off
school grounds, the District takes it very seriously. After learning of the altercation, the Hommocks was all over it right away and took several immediate measures to show these kids that this kind of unacceptable behavior will never be tolerated.   The District has a zero-tolerance policy for bullying of any nature at all times.  We do so many things throughout our schools on a regular basis to try to
make respect—respect for the diversity of our community—a part of
our school culture."

This is a typical scenario, said Quiros, adding that the details of racially motivated bullying are often a side note to an incident.

“The school has, in the past, suspended students and they put them through some type of ‘educational’ workshop with the intention of dealing with the incident and then moving on immediately. Suspensions are at maximum five days and can be in and out of school. The racial slurs go unreported because they are ‘common’ and the trauma of hearing that everyday is not acknowledged as different from bullying about physical traits,” he said.

Some of the other grievances echoed by parents and students alike in Padres Unidos High School involve “abuses related to arbitrary grading where the student felt a very unfair grading system in work submitted or tests taken that amounted to forms of intellectual disrespect; we have seen over 20 cases,” said Quiros. 

Both Marroquin and Quiros gave examples of what they perceived as a lack of sensitivity toward cultural and language differences in the Hispanic community, including the assumption by some teachers that students will know things that are not necessarily obvious to someone who wasn’t born in the U.S. Marroquin said that one 16-year-old student brought a paper to her at the C.A.P. Center with a comment referencing Dwight D. Eisenhower as an, "ex-president." The comment from the teacher written on the paper was, “We don’t call people ex-presidents.”

“One size does not fit all,” said Quiros, who rejects a uniform way of dealing with students.

Dr. Anthony Minotti, assistant superintendent for student support services as well as the school’s liason for efforts to engage the Hispanic community, said that the district was one of diversity and therefore, “very sensitive to the needs of all our children.”

He went on to say that the district had many support systems in place that acted as a safety net for kids having difficulties, including drug and alcohol abuse services, counseling and Building Bridges, a program designed to teach kids about people with disabilities. A pilot counseling program introduced at Hommocks in collaboration with  is primarily utilized by Hispanic students, he said.

"Hommocks was one of two schools in the country to pilot Padres Unidos," said Manetta.

Additionally, Minotti cited various examples of how the district has incorporated solutions to issues raised by Hispanic parents in the community including the translation of all school materials that are sent to parents into Spanish; bi-lingual staff members; busing of Hispanic students to different potential colleges in the area; restoration of a co-op camp that primarily benefited Hispanic students in 2009 after budget cuts nearly rendered them obsolete; bus services provided to transport Hispanic students twice per day to a preschool program at Chatsworth Elementary that was previously at MAS and several Spanish-language aimed initiatives including a school calendar and a TV show airing on LMC-TV called “Vistazos,” (Happenings).

Although he was unaware of the bullying situations described above—he said they had not been raised as issues at Padres Unidos meetings or by Quiros—and declined comment, Minotti said, “I believe our administration deals very swiftly and aggressively with situations concerning bullying and harassment.”

Still, says Quiros, an activist with 40 years of experience with Latino empowerment programs, there is much improvement to be made.

“There should be an acknowledgement that issues of bullying with a racial tone is not the same as bullying based on physical characteristics. This type of bullying is called a micro-aggression, which creates trauma in communities of color because of their marginalization. The students cannot just ‘move on’ when these comments leave the imprint that they are ‘different’ and can never change it. Current discipline models cannot be applied to all ‘incidents’ because these acts are not done in isolation or are a one-time thing, it is consistent,” he said.

Additionally, he said, it’s important that the district not attempt to fit every child into the same mold.

“The central conflict of interest for a school social worker or a therapist on the payroll is that the plan of action has to be within the guidelines of the school philosophy or ideology of the principal and administration,” he said.

“Training of staff and officials in these types of issues should not be absent of parent input an openness to listen to macro factors affecting family life. Without that perspective, 'models' will remain ineffective in addressing this growing problem.”

Editor's Note: The story was updated with a letter from Hommocks Principal Seth Weitzman and a statement from Debbie Manetta.

Gloria Goldstein June 12, 2012 at 12:07 PM
I believe that the only equitable solution to the "problem" of the Mamaroneck Avenue School is bussing. We need to bus kids from Larchmont into the MAS, and from the area around MAS to Larchmont. This way we can foster greater understanding and social equality. Bussing is the way forward.
Anthony Marcuso June 12, 2012 at 12:28 PM
I agree with Gloria. Bussing was very effective in the early days of the Civil Rights movement, and would work well to alleviate the concentration at MAS. A sort of lottery could be instituted whereby children from Larchmont would be bussed over to MAS and locals at MAS be bussed to Larchmont. The kids from Larchmont would benefit from the exposure to a second language. I'm all for it! A win-win.
BG7 June 12, 2012 at 01:37 PM
I'm sorry to hear Ms. Cozart's son is having a hard time. Bullying is just awful for kids, period, and the school should just be all over that. There should be a single sympathetic and sharp go-to-person for race issues at the school, so someone in authority there can build up the necessary knowledge and skills to help sort these problems. As for the teacher's comments on the paper - the teacher is correct. She/he's doing the job of .....teaching. You can't fall into the trap of choosing to go to a school because it is good (before you got there) and then trying to change the formula that has got it to that point to fit yourself.
Buddy June 12, 2012 at 01:44 PM
Bullying of any nature should not be tolerated. I believe we are fortunate to live in a community that is ethnically and socio-economically diverse. I think it's often difficult for kids to celebrate differences as they are all working to fit in themselves (and one way to make yourself feel like you belong to a group is to make someone else feel like they don't).
Beccas June 12, 2012 at 05:26 PM
Busing to Mamaroneck Ave school us not the answer. I live near Winged Foot in the Town of Mamaroneck . I grew up In Scarsdale. I specifically moved to a house zoned for Manaroneck Ave school . My husband and I are both attorneys not Hispanic or economically disadvantaged. We wanted to send our children to a diverse school system definitely not Scarsdale which has no economic diversity at all. Mamarineck Ave school is an amazing school . My children have thrived there. Y oldest is on her way to a top 20 college! Please don't ruin the wonderful atmosphere and learning environment at Mamaroneck ave by forcing Chatsworth and Murray children to attend our wonderful school. The comments I have heard from many many many parents from these two Larchmont schools have been disgraceful! Many of these parents are racists who hate Mas and are shocked that I chose to live in the Mas zoned school! They don't want their children mixing with poor kids it's disgusting! If they are forced to bus their children to Mamaroneck ave school they will begin litigation immediately trust me it's that bad! Our building was just made more spacious and beautiful . They would rather stay in moldy crowded Murray!
Lynne D June 12, 2012 at 06:27 PM
What a positively frightening account. I did not move here for my son to be exposed to this sort of horrible worldview. I'm absolutely with Beccas on both counts. The first is that bussing will create resentment and will wind up furthering the sense of victimization that these people already have. ("Oh my goodness! POOR PEOPLE near my children!! Quick! My smelling salts!!") The second is that it winds up inflicting a bunch of needless pain on the students of MAS. I certainly wouldn't want MY child to be attending school with the children of people with such destructive and offensive values. Racism? Classism? What is this? 1850 and these people fancy Larchmont to be the Upper East Side while they await their invitations from Mrs. Astor? What kind of savage reactionary garbage is that?? I really hope this isn't the case in the Rye Neck District. Otherwise, all of my by-passing opportunities to move back to New York City will have been in vain. I will NOT have my son around such stuff.
BG7 June 12, 2012 at 08:37 PM
Its simplistic to claim they are racist just because they don't want their children going there. If that school was 40% poor white kids, they still would be aghast and avoid it. Lynne D alludes to it in her response below. While there are racists, there are also plenty of classists. Being an immigrant Myself, I suppose I've become used to the verbal substitution of "race" in place of "class" in America, but it doesn't help the debate when it obscures the problem.
Lynne D June 12, 2012 at 09:40 PM
Well, that was kind of you, BG7. I thought I was coming right out and saying it. LOL. Yes, it's a savage, classist attitude that is raging behind it all. Most ironic, of course, is that the child who utters such classist comments (as quoted in the article; "You're poor", "You don't have anything") is actually making his household look provinicial, as if they were barely hanging on to some precarious social standing. It's a throwback from a previous era, but that household didn't get the memo on how gauche their child is making them look in this day and age. I agree with you that it would still be present if MAS had a large population of white kids from lower income homes too, but let's not overlook that some of these kids were also confronted with horrible racist comments as well. I believe Beccas when she says that she's heard similar comments from the parents.
BG7 June 12, 2012 at 09:59 PM
Well I said "allude" as you seemed to be querying it rather then asserting it. But we both agree it is there. Along with racism. BTW, if you're hoping to avoid this sort of thing by getting schooling in the NYC public system you might if you chose the right school. But there is plenty of unthinking racism among students in the system. If your kids are white, for example, they'll soon be made very aware of that fact if they are in a minority-white school and "white" will be used as an epithet, just like unacceptable synonyms for asian, black etc are also. Its no panacea for this.
Lynne D June 12, 2012 at 10:58 PM
Poor Beccas. She'll keep getting email notifications of these comments. I wish there was a way to reply to replies. (Hint to site admins). I don't expect to avoid ALL racism anywhere. It's an unfortunate full part of this nation's history and culture. But if being in the suburbs is going to expose my son to this kind of savage classism in the schools, I'd rather take the chance in NYC. We've already done our introduction day at Daniel Warren (lower elementary school of the Rye Neck district) and it seemed like an economically diverse crowd. The principal most certainly seemed open-minded and welcoming. I'm hoping he doesn't get subjected to this kind of thing there. Or, if he does, at least not in the same degree that is reported in this article about the Mamaroneck District.
Ted1234 June 13, 2012 at 03:12 AM
I don't know why the school district is so open to giving special benefits to Hispanics. Free bus rides to preschool at chatsworth, bus services to college visits, a cheap subsidized summer camp used primarily by Hispanics. Why is the district giving so many benefits to Latinos when there are so many other nationalities in the district? Where are the staff members that speak French or Indian? Or special newsletters sent out for households whose primary language isn't Spanish or English. Stop with the special treatment for one specific group.
lucy June 13, 2012 at 02:10 PM
Ted , you are missing the point! Many, but not all of the spoiled, rich,entitled , bratty kids with snob, elitist ,phony, hypocrite liberals parents (most ) vote Democrat, are spewing nasty vile comments to some of the more economically disadvantaged fellow students at the Hommocks. I'm not even so sure it's because they are Hispanic. I'm sure if Arod Yankee baseball players kids went to Hommocks they would be treated in a more humane manner. Many not all rich people don't want their children sitting next to a poor kid in school. The kids pick up on this their parents elitist attitude and act accordingly.
Jeff Hammer June 13, 2012 at 02:22 PM
My daughters both go to MAS and I love the diversity that they are exposed too. I am not Hispanic and I feel being exposed to a diverse class system will benefit them in the future. This is the first I am hearing of this bullying and it breaks my heart that there are students from other schools displaying this kind of behavior. However, it is being taught at home, which is a disgrace to their parents.
Buddy June 13, 2012 at 03:27 PM
I absolutely agree. Whether it be classism or racism, this kind of stuff is being taught at home.
Jonathan Sacks June 13, 2012 at 05:19 PM
Special needs have been identified in this population that represents 9% of the district. The system works hard in early intervention to bring children up to an age appropriate level early on to minimize both future expense and to create equality later in schools for the child. Busing is being provided because the district made the determination that to keep expense down by not expanding MAS it would relocate the pre-k program, the net is a lower total expense to the district for these children taken out of their community school. This is similar to what may be required if we go to a Princeton Plan where children are moved to schools based on age not residence. This too would save the district millions even with the increased transportation expense. If there is another special need that is not being met then the forum for you to bring it up is with the school system, not simply complaining on a blog when you are not informed and were you will not satisfy your need. If you need help in addressing a need of this nature feel free to reach out to me and I will try to help in facilitating a dialog with the proper parties.
eliza June 14, 2012 at 04:39 PM
Bussing is always the easy answer, and that worked so well back in the 1970's. I think that the parents really need to discuss these issues with their kids and also watch what they say theselves. People are different, colors, languages, abilities etc. We are not all the best at everything but we are each special in our own way. I have a HS student and Middle School student. So far, they have had no issues or have been involved with this nonsense. The people they surround themselves with do not behave like this either.
laura June 14, 2012 at 04:44 PM
middle school and teens tend to use this time of life to figure things out - often times not comfortable in their own skin. White kids can be harsh to other white kids and so on- not only aimed at minorities. Sadly, minorities in our community might feel targeted due to their visual differences but lack of maturity might be fueling some of the comments. I think we parents whenever learning of this occasions should take the time to try to correct and change the negative viewpoints some feel and wrongly express. It takes all kinds , hopefullly all become kinder
g June 16, 2012 at 01:02 PM
it would seem hispanic/latino is the new Black (pun intended). the main difference is that Black ppl have never had such numbers as the Hispanics, though through the years I would guess Black residents in these towns would have similar stories to tell. In the end I agree with those who note the problem is likely more one of classism than racism. the nice liberal folks who children populate the 4 elementary schools clearly feel privileged and don't wants their kids mixing with the poor and presumably less desirable "fill in racial group". I hope I live long enough to see how these same folks feel when the tables are turned come 2040 - when America officials goes from a white majority to being the new minority. It's been my experience that Black, Middle Eastern (yes the Muslims numbers are increasing quickly too), Hispanic/Latino and Asians (including East Indians) rarely hold a grudge. My gut tells me that at that time websites won't be filled with stories of white ppl tired of being called "dirty gringos".
Bridge June 18, 2012 at 03:04 AM
I have one child at MAS and one at the high school. My children are half hispanic, half white, not poor, and not rich. I love MAS because of the loving nurturing atmosphere it creates. It seems to me that the children come home from school enthusiastic about learning and feeling encouraged and feeling that they are making progress. I love the fact that my children are friends with other children whose parents are doctors, bus drivers, teachers, gardeners, lawyers, babysitters, and more. They have friends with roots in different countries - not just Latin America although there are many Hispanics at MAS - and they are comfortable with just about everyone. Does MAS have lower test scores than the other schools? Sure, that is the predictable result of a school population with a large number of low income, at-risk students. I don't mind. As far as I can tell, all the children are progressing and that's what counts. I wouldn't change a thing at MAS. I would encourage the district to look for opportunities to expose students at the more homogenous schools to diversity at an earlier age than Hommocks. I think middle school, with all of the peer group pressures, and the developmental and social changes of early adolescence, is not a great time to introduce children to diversity.
Jeff Hammer June 18, 2012 at 12:43 PM
I agree and wish more parents were level headed like you.

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